I have been thinking a lot about Vernon... I know he is going through a rough time and I am just hoping that he still believes his wishes will come true when he blows on a dandylion! I wish for him that through his divorce he will grow, he will choose happiness rather than bitterness. That he will make good choices and that the choices he makes will lead to his higher self. The self that will take care of him and teach him to love himself that that is key to loving some one else. AND that he can trust again. That he doesn't have to judge new people in his life by those that walked in his past.
I hope that he will learn that the past is that...the past it is dead and gone. That in order to be happy you have to live in the present without regret. That there is NO regret when you view your life as the journey...not the destination. That in the journey is joy within the sorrow and that sorrow makes you breath in deeply the most minuet essence of joy. That you can find what is spiritual without being a fanatic religious person. That religion keeps you from seeing things some times, you can be religious and loose your way. But if you are spiritual you are open, you don't judge, you embrace and expect others to be the same and when they aren't you just realize they are not as far along the journey as you are.
To leave bitterness at the door. To embrace only love. To act in honoring yourself and the relationship you had. Not the bad ending. Not to do anything you will be ashamed of. And that in courage you can see that even if it is hard not to lash out and be an ass, you can choose to view it a different way. You can feel sorry for the person attacking you. It may be hard but you can release your anger and get past it. You can live in the moment and not trash yourself with drinking and smoking and sleeping around. That won't fill you. That what can fill you is the fact that you can learn and love and not fall.
Choose happy baby. Choose happy! And don't live in regret, don't live in anger, and don't live in a space that will make you ashamed later. Be sober. Be healthy. Mind what you put in your body. You only have one. Take care of yourself and you will be attractive to others, they will see the spotlight beaming from your spirit and want to be around that. Your aura, the inner most you will shine! You are shiny! You are bright like the sun!
Hang in there it gets better! Believe in the wishes you can make on a dandylion! They can come true! : )
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